Reflection
After few weeks of classes, I understand my self better. I started to look at my self and think who am I and what can I do. The first activity that I did in this class is to know about Taylor's graduate capabilities. There are 8 of them which are: discipline specific knowledge, lifelong learning, thinking and problem solving skill,communicating skill, intrapersonal skill, interpersonal skill, citizenship and global perspective and digital literacy. Among these capabilities, I found out that I need improvements in my communicating skills. I found out that I am lack of confidence when communicate with others. Thus, I planned to figure out ways to overcome it. I can talk more to other people, not just those that I am close in but also those who I don't even know their name. This is very important for me as my dream is to become a clinical psychologist who need to meet a lot of people from different backgrounds and help them overcome their problems. I can't let them getting worse and worse just because of my weak communicating skills hurt their feelings. Thus, since now I know that from 8 major capabilities, I am worse in communicating, I shall put more effort in improve it.
The second thing that I learnt is about setting a smart goal. This, again, helped me too. Before knowing this method of setting goal, I found it hard in achieving goals even though I know the goals are important. I often end up did nothing for the whole day or even whole year. None of my goals which i set in the beginning of the year achieved. By knowing this SMART method of setting goals, it seems like my goal is more attainable. The SMART stands for specific, measurable, attainable, relevant and time-bound. From this, I can set my goal as ' I want to get 4A's in my A-level examination in 1.5 years so that I can get into my dream university'. This looks much better than just saying ' I want to get good results'. Now I have a specific direction and a target to work towards it. I should set more goals by using this method so that I will not procrastinate and can do work effectively without wasting time.
Next, I did my personality test. From the result I obtain, I know that I am an introvert which always keep calm and quiet. I maintain distance with others and take privacy as important thing in life. The result didn't show clear result but still give the possible personality types of me. The personality that I feel happy that I have is the counselor. It fits my dream of becoming a clinical psychologist. Now I know that I have the potential to achieve my dream. Thus, I should be determine on my decision.
In order to achieve my dream which I confirmed when I did my personality test, I need to work hard for it. The 1st thing I need to do is to get a good result. This is why the next section become important for me. I need to make sure that I use a correct study method to get as much knowledge as I can. Therefore, I need to know my learning style. As the result of the test I took online, I found out that I am a visual learner. I can learning better by imagine pictures and look at pictures. The weakness of being a visual learner is that I get distracted easily which I know it is quite true. I can,t focus in studies if there are people beside me or often pass by my side. Thus, I should find a quiet study area to avoid me from getting distracted.
Other than that, I learned about SWOT which means strength, weakness, opportunities and threats. I was asked to figure this 4 things that I have in my life. I took this opportunity to sit down and think deeply that strength do I have, what is my weakness, what are the opportunities that I have and what are the threats that I am going to face. After writing down a long list of it, I realise that I am not as bad as I thought I was. although I have a lot of weakness which will affect my path of achieving dreams, but I still have strength that help me to overcome all that. Even though my strength might not be enough to totally overcome my weakness now, I can figure out ways to increase my strength. Now I know that I have lot of opportunities and might face a lot of threats in future. Thus, I need to be prepare so that I will not lose any opportunities or be defeated my those threats.
Lastly, I did my career test. Actually I had decided that no matter what is the result, I will still continue in my dream because I realise that a person doesn't fit a job well do not mean that he cannot do the job well. Anyway, I took the test seriously because I am curious about my result. Fortunately, psychologist is one of the job shown in the list they gave me as the result of test. The result shows that I care of other people's feelings and suit the job. This motivate me even more to become a psychologist.
As conclusion, this session really helps me a lot more than I thought it will be. From a person that do not know what to do, I know myself better now. I know my ability and strength and my weakness. I set my goal and confirm my dream. I had set a pathway of my life and I am going to follow it. This pathway might not be persistent because I might have a different thought when I grow up and face even more obstacles. However, no matter what will the result be, as long as I am aware of what am I doing now and if I follow the steps, I will sure reach the goal of my life.